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Choosing Between Spouse and Lover: What if it’s Love?
I have been in a relationship with a very good person for the past 15 years, but I have been having an affair for the past six. I tried to let my partner know about the situation some years ago, but she was so forgiving and understanding I could not bring myself to hurt her further and so the situation has continued. We have occasional sex but I think we both engage in it out of duty rather than desire. My lover knows everything, and is of course frustrated at the situation. She has ended the relationship she was in and is now available for an open situation. She is pushing me to choose between my partner and her.
I'm betting that if u do leave ur husband, ur coworker might not want u like u thought he did. What kind of chance are you giving your marriage if you are still seeing your lover? Does your husband know you are still seeing him? If you don't love your husband and aren't willing to be faithful to him, why would you stay married to him? Thanks for the vote.
At last I had cracked it. That was over a decade ago. And for most of those years, I would no more have deliberately jeopardized my marriage than have stepped out in front of a bus. But I loved him, and I was committed to him and to our marriage. Time passed in a blur of domestic, social and professional activity. While he worked, I put my career on hold to be a stay-at-home mum to our children.
I feel unable to let either woman down
Read the script here:. I understand that you are in love with that other person, and will not deny that, but I will ask you to think about a couple of things as you plan your future. Because, as you make this choice, you need to make the best choice concerning everyone especially yourself. Joe Beam, with Marriage Helper. We love having people watch our videos. You see that subscribe button right down there [on YouTube]?