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No One Cares About You -- And That's Great
In fact, no one really cares about you. Sure, you have family and a few great friends. They will take particular interest in various parts of your life, helping you when needed. When properly understood, this is incredibly freeing and valuable. Early in my career, the fear of failure drove most of my decisions. How would I look? What would people think?
Problems cannot be solved using the same level of thinking that created them. We must try something different.
Feeling lost and unwanted — like no one cares about you — is surprisingly normal! Every human being, no matter how loved or happy they seem, feels like nobody cares at some point in their lives. If you feel abandoned and rejected, trust that you are not alone in those feelings. Instead of facing and admitting that they feel alone and unloved, they bury themselves in addictions, shopping, obsessions about their appearance, getting new things, seeking different thrills. You long to be home with God, to know the love of Jesus Christ, to feel the presence of the Holy Spirit. Those longings will never be filled by Facebook, movies, or even other people.
Sometimes, it's easy to feel that nobody cares about you. Even the most popular and famous people have doubts about whether or not people close to them actually care. Learn how to overcome these moments of doubt, and value yourself for who you are. If you often feel worthless or unloved, take steps to improve your life. Counselor Paul Chernyak reminds us: "Be proactive and start inviting people to join you.
Sad does not do my feelings justice. Neither does frustrated. Or lost. The pain is ongoing and unexplainable. I keep picking up my phone, desperate to reach out to friends, but there is no one for me to text. There are people who will read my message and ignore me without bothering to type out a reply.